Monday, November 5, 2012

"Blessed Beyond Measure"

We might be feeling a little creaky and old, but there are some benefits to getting older!  I'm just posting a cute series of pictures of our granddaughter, Emma, eating her first whole cupcake!





Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Fall outing

Scott had Monday off after working a lot of long hours last week. The weather was beautiful, so we decided to take Alyssa out after school and take a drive out to Jordan's plant farm and Christmas village. It doesn't take much to thrill her. A drive, a few candy sticks, and a meal and she was in hog heaven!

Friday, October 26, 2012

"Proud of our Christian Heritage"


Photo 1 - Ernest and Emma Simmons, 1970
Photo 2 - Simmons family on the farm, 1934 (Joe Simmons, age 4, in front)
Photo 3 - Harold and Mary Petticoffer, 1997
Photo 4 - Victoria Costa, Jessica, Alyssa, Jennifer Petticoffer, Kimie Simmons

With our nation's morals and common sense in the state of decline and with many second or third generation Christians dropping by the wayside as "victims" of their parents' religious beliefs, I just feel like saying - "I'm proud of being a Christian, a native Texan, an American, and a Baptist!"   I wholeheartedly believe that the Christian values my grandparents and parents taught us by example have been a major cause of the happiness and contentment in my family.
Were all of our forefathers Christians? I don't know, that is between them and the Lord.  Were they all church goers?  Probably not.  The generations that influenced us were both.  Were they perfect? No.  Did they try their best? Yes. Do I honor their memory? Yes.
I just read an article written by the daughter of a Baptist preacher.  She called her childhood and young adulthood unhappy, her father a cult leader, and she is no longer a professing Christian. She makes her living by telling her story of being a victim of Bible truth and then becoming a free spirit to healing powers of positive attitudes.  I thought, "What a bunch of sad hogwash".   The Bible is still true, God is still alive, the Holy Spirit is still powerful, and Jesus still is the Son of God.  Unhappiness is not a reason to turn your back on these truths.  
If you are unhappy, move to a happy place or take Zoloft, but love God.  Start a new career path, but love God.  The Lord never deserves to be abandoned because of the misbehavior of men on the earth.  Men may misbehave, mistreat, or disappoint, but Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, and to day, and forever.
The Petticoffer home owes whatever success we have experienced to the Lord and to the Simmons, Chapman, Gerhart, and Petticoffer values taught to us by loving examples.
1. The Bible is true.
2. God is a trinity: God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
3. Salvation is by grace, through faith, in the Lord Jesus Christ.
4. Baptism is a picture of the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.
5. Be faithful - to church, to your spouse, to your job
6. Work hard.  Play hard.  Have fun.
7. Keep a clean and neat home.
8. Eat meals together as a family.
9. Welcome guests into your home.  Be hospitable, generous, and friendly.
10. Dad is the authority in the home.  Mom backs up Dad.  The children sit at the kids' table during holidays. lol
11. Live by principle, not personality.
12. Love unconditionally.





Sunday, October 21, 2012

Alyssa's Salvation


Our youngest daughter, Alyssa, was saved this past week during our Homecoming Revival.  Evangelist Rob Hicks preached a message on Wednesday night that really spoke to her heart.   I usually remember everything about a sermon, but I don't about this one.  Right in the middle of the message Bro. Hicks talked about Jesus' return to this earth, how that the word "rapture" was not in the Bible but that the truth is taught and that it will happen.  I do remember him describing the mess this world will be in when saved airplane pilots, train engineers, drivers, etc. are taken off of this planet.  Airplanes will be crashing everywhere, cars crashing, all because God's trumpet blows and we're taken off out of here.  I was enjoying the sermon.  I did think that it had been awhile since I have heard the rapture described like that.  No worry, I'm saved and my immediate family will not be here.  We'll all be in Heaven together...
Just at that point, I noticed Alyssa writing notes in her journal.  We weren't given a point to write so I was interested in what she was writing.  "I'm only 95% sure".  I didn't hear another word of the sermon.  She and I began a note writing session.
Notes:
1. Salvation is a look to Jesus Christ.  Isaiah 45:22
2. It is faith in Christ alone.  Eph. 2:8,9
3. It is nothing we can do or feel. Romans 3:10, 23 - we are all condemned sinners.
4. It is faith in Jesus' death, burial, and resurrection.  I Corinthians 15:3b, 4
5. If you trusted Jesus, and Him alone, to save you, you will go to Heaven when you die.  Romans 10:9, 10, 13
6. God is not the author of fear, but of love and of a sound mind.

Well, the invitation was starting so I made my way to the piano.  I thought that she had it settled after our note writing session.  As I was playing, I looked over my shoulder to see how she was doing.  She was as pale and panic-stricken as I had ever seen anyone.  She did not appear to have the peace and security of the believer.  I made my way down to her and called her to the altar.
Alyssa has led many souls to Christ and I knew that she knew the Scriptures.  Still, I wanted her to get this nailed down from Scripture, not words I said.  We went through the Romans road verses and after making sure she understood that salvation is not her behavior, or words, or a feeling but faith alone in Jesus Christ, she asked the Lord to save her in her own words and prayer.
As a mother, I was glad she came to this time on her own.  Our pastor was kind to speak to the congregation about children who grow up in church and how difficult it is sometimes for them to know 100% for sure that they're saved, since they have no sinful past with which to compare their new life.
Alyssa was baptized by her pastor tonight.  We sort of joked with her, but she has a greater faith and understanding of salvation and the work of Jesus Christ in her life.
Our devotionals since then have been about salvation.  The more we learn, the more we are amazed.  There is nothing we can feel, accomplish, or work for in this world to deserve our own salvation.  Salvation is all about God's grace, love, compassion, and mercy on undeserving souls like us!  Praise the Lord!

Monday, August 13, 2012

Vacation in Vicksburg




Scott, Alyssa, and I had a mini-vacation to Vicksburg, Mississippi.  We've been studying the Civil War this summer and Vicksburg was mentioned several times.  Alyssa was so excited to get to see an historical place and with it being only four hours away it was the perfect destination.
We left on Monday morning, August 6, and took our time driving and eating lunch.  When we arrived around 3:00 p.m. we noticed school buses throughout the town.  I thought the bus drivers were just practicing their routes but there were kids on the bus so we were perplexed.  We found out that the Vicksburg school system started school that day!  This made our little trip less congested and calm.  All of the destinations seemed less crowded than I expected.
In the 48-hour period we were there we were able to visit the...
1. Coca-cola museum
2. Doll museum - Alyssa loved this!
3. Outlet mall - Jennifer loved this!
4. Vicksburg Battlefield and museum, U.S. Cairo museum
5. Anchuca Mansion - Jefferson Davis' brother's home
6. Walnut Hill restaurant - located in an historical home
7. Vicksburg mall - not fancy, but GREAT prices
8. Riverfront park and Vicksburg murals
9. Several scenic drives
I didn't even mention all of the eating we packed into this time period.  It's a good thing we were only gone for three days!
We left a little early from Vicksburg so we could spend time at the Pecanland Mall in Monroe, Louisiana.  It is a nice place to stop and stretch your legs while you shop at Dillards....

Friday, August 10, 2012

Celebrating Kimber













Praise the Lord - We now have our third granddaughter!  Leonard and Victoria Costa had their second daughter, Kimber Layne, on Thursday, August 2, 2012.
Kimber weighed 8 lbs. 5 oz. and was 20 inches long.  All of the Simmons grandchildren were born at the Good Shepherd Medical Center in Longview, Texas.  Kate Lynn Costa and Emma LuAnne Meave were also born there.  Kimber broke the pattern.  She was born in Kaiserslautern, Germany at Landstuhl Army Medical Center.  It was very difficult not to go through the doctor visits and hospital stay with Victoria but it was very good to know that she and Leonard were together for the birth of this baby.
Leonard called on the day of her birth and talked for over an hour.  He seems to be taking fatherhood very naturally and was very happy about Kimber, even though she wasn't a boy!  Victoria was able to go home from the hospital on Saturday and seems to be doing very well although she has her hands full.
Alyssa and I celebrated the next day by going out to lunch and shopping for fabric and patterns.  It's time for Gigi and Aunt Sissy to start sewing so we can get good and making things for these little girls!

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Meeting Family for the First Time

Emi with Alyssa - 2012

Mother, Emi, Aunt Sako - 1955
We were blessed to have my cousin, Emi, visit us this past week.  She is from a suburb of Tokyo, Japan, where she lives with her husband Akira and her daughter, Mireko.  Emi is the daughter of my mother's brother, Miyuki.  I have never met any of my 13 Japanese cousins so this was a special time for all of us.
Emi has been calling my mother for the past two years and has been planning to visit America for a long while. Plans were delayed due to the earthquakes, tsunami, and nuclear power problems that hit Japan.  For several weeks she and her family experienced daily tremors and lack of power.  We have been looking forward to her visit, praying for her safety,  and have been preparing the house for the past few months.
Because of my Texas upbringing I sometimes forget that I am half Japanese.   I do not give that side of me its due attention.  This week I have learned so many things about our family and have learned more of the Japanese language.
First of all, I didn't realize how difficult it was on my mother's family to have her move to the United States after she married my father.  My cousin brought a copy of a 56-year-old letter written by my aunt to my uncle letting him know of the move my mother was about to make.  My uncle kept that letter all of this time.  One purpose of my cousins' visit was to assure that my mother is well-taken care of and happy.  She told us that she would report to the family that all is beyond well for my mother here in America.  She lives in a loving home, has many friends, and is very happy.
Secondly, I see that the hand of the Lord has been on my mother's life.  Moving here to America was a great step in her knowing Jesus Christ and trusting Him for her salvation.  This has made all of the difference in her childrens' lives and eternity. I am grateful beyond measure that God brought my mother here to America and Texas!
Emi loved the atmosphere of America.  She loved the peace and quiet of East Texas.  She felt that the people were very loving, warm, and peaceful.  She bonded with several church ladies one afternoon and spoke of them on the way to the airport as if they were dear friends, and they are!
My heart has been made more aware of the need of salvation for my family in Japan and for all of the Japanese people.  My world has grown larger and my burden greater.  It is difficult to know that half of your family and your ancestors have not accepted the Lord Jesus Christ.  I hope you will pray along with me for the missionaries in Japan and for the Holy Spirit to work on their hearts.